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over familiarity tends to over boundary

it seems unfamiliar to me at some point. 

i grew up being respectful and i get being respected for that, in return. 

i learned the traditional way of answering to the elders.

i learned that all girls should be treated with love and gentle. 

i learned that not everyone will have the same afffection as you do, and that's okay in my part. 

right after my junior high school life, as i transferred school far away from home. 

everything was new to me. 

i saw teenagers smoking. 

i saw girls being hitted by their boyfriends. 

i saw girls wearing skirt above the knee level, and that's very uncomfortable to me. 

yes, i may drinking alcohol but that's tradition to us, and very occasionally. 

everything is so new. and it was so shocking. 

being in your comfort zone and being in a wild place with your self. 

i grew up learning the word, 'personal space'. 

if it doesn't concern you, leave it that way. 

because people now a day didn't know that essence of private. 

once they knew something to you, they will invade your personal space and that's so gross. 

they will curse you with no reason. 

getting slapped with no valid reason. 

but im not regretting it, it may new to me but im still learning the true meaning of life. 

not to be killjoy, but the peaceful life is within you, the way how you handle things with love and passion. 

i may met different people with different personalities and different way of approaching, i still am the same person as i am in elementary and junior high. 

im still improving. 

i treasure every lectures i've had with my mama and pastora. 

the thing is,

can people stop with the stigma?

let's end the over boundary. 

once you knew something about the person, be sensitive with it. 

trust is so hard to accomplish. 

dont over boundary. 

keep the personal space. 

everyone is no permanent.

so learn how to handle things with care. 

learn that not all information should not be a reveal. 

you are you.

not what's others tell you to. 

nor the society wants to. 

nor what your teachers mold you to. 

nor what your parents tell you to. 

you are you because that's how you adapt in your environment. 

be the person within you. 

be not discourage of what others is telling you. 

only you can help you. 

i love you, anyone who's reading this. 

i may not know you personally but im sure it will help you, whatever running in you mind.